Good chemistry. Clear expectations.
See where your expectations align. Explore practical arrangements, intimacy, or both.
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A conversation in three steps
Choose your topics
Choose arrangement expectations, intimacy preferences, or both. Each person chooses whether to include intimacy.
Answer privately
Invite your partner and answer separately, each at your own pace.
See your shared results
Once you’ve both submitted, see where you align and what’s worth discussing.
When you include arrangement
The details make the difference.
Arrangement only and Arrangement + optional intimacy include 8 core topics, from support to exclusivity, plus optional details. Intimacy-only alignments skip these topics.
Support
Whether to offer, receive or discuss support, with an amount or range, currency and period when relevant.
Time together
How often you would like to meet, with weekly, monthly or flexible choices.
Travel
Whether trips together appeal to you, with practical arrangements covered in optional follow-up questions.
Experiences
Choose what you enjoy, such as dining, culture, nightlife or time outdoors.
Places & hosting
Where you are comfortable meeting, whether you can host and whether you are comfortable visiting.
Discretion
Practical boundaries for being seen together, photos, tagging and introductions.
Communication
How often you want to stay in touch and which channels you prefer. Add response times and quiet hours if useful.
Connection & exclusivity
What you want from the connection and what exclusivity would mean to you.
Support, affection and intimacy are separate. No amount creates entitlement, and no result is a price or a promise.
Intimacy, on its own or alongside arrangement
Already settled your arrangement?
Explore your intimacy preferences together with an intimacy-only alignment. Or include them alongside your arrangement. Each person opts in separately and chooses their own categories and comfort level.
Each person decides whether to take part. Only categories you both enable are compared. Shared results never disclose No answers or rejection counts. You can leave every category off.
24 optional intimacy questions available. Choose the categories and comfort level that suit you, or leave intimacy off.
Understand optional intimacyKnow what you are sharing
Your answers stay yours. Know the limits.
Your partner never receives your complete answer sheet. The report can still reveal preferences through overlap, especially if someone selects every option. Participate only with someone you trust.
Read the disclosure and privacy detailsCommon ground. Room to talk.
Where expectations align and what’s worth discussing.
- Time together
- Aligned
- Travel
- Possible overlap
- Lifestyle
- Worth discussing
Your partner sees shared results, not your full answer sheet.
Start with clearer expectations.
Answer at your own pace. Invite your partner when you’re ready.
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