Questions about Let's Arrange This.

Yes. You can start, answer and read your shared report as a guest. Keep your private return link if you want to use another browser or device. You can also link a verified account for private history.

Your partner sees a limited result after you both submit, rather than your complete answer sheet. When arrangement is included, practical cards show shared expectations and topics to discuss; experiences show only choices you both selected. Intimacy shows only permitted mutual interests and hides No, unanswered and inapplicable answers. Earlier skipped answers stay hidden too. Broad selections can still reveal preferences through overlap.

No. Maybe means a topic for discussion. Neither a result nor a previous answer gives permission for any activity. Ask, listen and respect a change of mind.

Your answers and drafts expire 30 days after the alignment is created. Saving a report never extends that deadline. If both people permit longer retention before submitting, a participant can explicitly Save the limited report for up to 12 months after completion. Otherwise it expires at the original deadline.

Yes. Before the second person joins, use the handoff control and keep your own private return link first. Handoff signs out the current account and clears its guest access from that browser so the other person can join. After joining, they should keep their own return link too. Keep both links private.

No. Submission locks your answers. Start a new alignment to compare changed answers or a different scope. Either participant can revoke the existing report for both.

When arrangement is included, the percentage shows the share of comparable arrangement cards that fully align, across eight core cards. Possible overlap is separate. Unanswered and discussion-only answers are not comparable; earlier skipped answers are excluded too. Intimacy-only alignments have no arrangement cards and no percentage. This is not a scientific relationship measure or an intimacy score.

Yes. Choose Arrangement only, Arrangement + optional intimacy, or Intimacy only when you start. Intimacy only skips all arrangement and practical detail questions. Choosing a mode or proposing categories does not opt either person in. Each person decides whether to allow intimacy processing and which categories to enable, if any. Either person can submit without intimate answers. If there are no permitted shared interests, an intimacy-only report shows a neutral message without a score or either person’s private choices. Arrangement results are still available when arrangement is included. Shared results can still let someone infer preferences through overlap.

No. Support and intimacy are separate topics. Comparing support requires compatible offering and receiving roles, the same currency and the same period. An amount never creates entitlement to affection or an activity.

No. A code locates an alignment; it is not a password. You also need the browser where you have access, a verified account linked to that alignment or your private return link. Keep return links private.

Your answers save automatically as you go. Wait for “Saving your changes…” to disappear before leaving. If saving fails, keep the page open and retry when your connection returns. If another tab has newer changes, use the options on screen to load them or apply your own changes.

Removing a history entry changes only your private list, label and star. Revoking blocks both people’s access to the alignment, including its report. Deleting your participation erases your own information and closes the shared report. Your partner’s own answers and private access remain, with their original expiry limits. Account deletion applies this to your account’s owned participations. Removal can be pending after access stops; check the private receipt for completion. Copies already made elsewhere cannot be recalled.